As a strong woman, i pride myself on raising a strong daughter- one who doesnt take to female hysterics or is prone to over emotional reactions- i have seen the down fall to that this afternoon.
My daughter keeps a lot of the childhood drama to herself and attempts to shake off a lot of what is bothering her, until she cracks... last week when she got out of school, got into the car and broke down in tears asking to go to a new classroom. Apparently a child whose parents have been causing untold amounts of drama at the school has been on her own bitch crusade to make my daughters life a living hell. We did what any parent would do (after i called and raged at my husband for a good 40 minutes) and talked to the teacher about almost a years woth of problems and assured our daughter that the teacher would handle it, she just had to make sure to talk to the teacher when there was an issue.
We explained to our daughter that children often mimic the behavior that they see their mothers displaying and that she should have compassion for this bitch-child....and to make sure our daughter felt comfortable, yes, we got her a cellphone. I told her that under no circumstance is she to show the phone to anyone or use it at school unless there is a problem that the teacher is ignoring, fast forward to today. I got a text from my daughter telling me that the bitch-family was going to be in the classroom watching presentations and she didnt feel comfortable being in the room with them (bitch mom has approached my daughter and asked her questions regarding the drama that she has caused this year and i have told bitch-mom in no uncertain terms to stay the f***k away from my child)...my daughter had asked to be allowed to sit in the office and was told no, she has to listen to the presentations and learn (really? The presentations were on Mariah Carey...really??????)...so my daughter hightailed it to the bathroom and called me in hysterics while i was already on the way to the school to figure out what was happening- and i freaked.
All in all, my daughter is fine, we have a new classroom and I just saw the fat bitch mom leaving the school...I really have to wonder though, while some moms are teaching their daughters to try to be level headed and strong, why are other moms teaching their daughters to be bitches? Is that really necessary? This bitch-mom is the same mom who was calling parents all year crying about how her daughter has no friends and how her husband had an affair with a school volunteer (i know the volunteer, this was all made up in paranoid bitch-moms mind....but i wouldnt blame the no-balls-husband if he did cheat)...and she wonders why her daughter has no friends? Shocking. It really is...
